Data- and Wisdom-Informed Guidance for People Building Meaningful Lives
About
Ipek Gray (pronounced "E-peck")
Ipek is an economist, impact investor, and Whole-Life Advisor recognized as a Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work in educational investments and managing $10M+ in impact-driven portfolios.
Raised inside a 30-year family-developed proprietary system known as The Born Method, she works with the patterns encoded in our birthdates — translating them into practical insight about how we think, relate, lead, and move through time.
Clients often describe working with Ipek as having a strategist, therapist, and trusted advisor in one room — someone who brings both structure and depth to meaningful decisions.
A sustainable life is built through alignment — when relationships, family, business, and personal growth reinforce rather than compete with one another.
The Born Method™
The Born Method™ is the foundation of Ipek’s coaching practice.
It is a proprietary system developed over 30 years by her mother, built on decoding the mathematical patterns embedded in our birthdates to understand how we think, relate, lead, and move through time.
Raised inside this framework, Ipek integrates its pattern analysis with her background in economics and impact investing to bring structure and sustainability to real-life decisions.
From career and leadership to relationship and family dynamics, this work transforms self-awareness into intentional growth — aligning the life you’re building with who you actually are.
Behavioral
Insight
Rooted in decades of observation and human data, it illuminates the psychology behind your choices.
Mathematical Precision
Grounded in data and mathematics, each session decodes the logic behind your patterns & timing.
Transformational Clarity
Designed to turn awareness into aligned action across your personal, relational, and professional life.
This work is for
Individuals in transition
Career shifts, relocations, identity changes, or new seasons of life — who want to move forward with intention rather than reaction.
Founders and leaders
Building meaningful companies and navigating growth, restructuring, hiring, or pivotal decisions — who want clarity rooted in sustainability, not just scale.
Couples and families
Seeking deeper understanding of relationship and family dynamics — and wanting to replace friction with clarity.
High-achieving professionals
Who feel capable yet unsettled — and want to understand the patterns shaping their decisions, stress, and growth.
client reflections
My session with Ipek was so incredibly informative. She delivers important and insightful information so clearly and kindly that you can immediately get a sense of where different aspects of your matrix show up in your life. The Born Method is so helpful in giving language to things that on some level I knew to be true, but now more consciously am aware of. Thank you to Ipek and this wonderful modality! I will take many things that you said with me for many years to come!
Lindsay Green, Coach
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